Ever wondered how people make their Facebook post pictures take up so much space (read: grab your attention) when posting links while yours just show a small thumbnail photo? Here’s an easy 5 step process for making use of bigger Facebook photos.

Insert the desired link under “Update Status” (personal Facebook account) or “Status” (Facebook page). Facebook will automatically pull in a thumbnail from the link, like this:

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Don’t click post just yet. Click “No Thumbnail,” like this:

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Then click “Photo/Video” and “Add to post,” like this:

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Find the photo on your computer that you would like to upload to the Facebook post and select it. For example, if I’m posting a blog post about spring formal fashion on the Fit in Clouds Facebook page, I would upload the corresponding style board photo to Facebook, like this:

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Click “Post” then voila! A big, pretty image, like this:

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What tricks do you have for making your Facebook posts attention-grabbing?

ask cristina graphic Ask Cristina: How to Build a Client Base

A friend from college recently reached out to me on behalf of her boyfriend to ask about how to build a client base big enough that he could pursue his own consulting business. Admittedly, I’ve been very lucky in the past four months- every single client that I have has come to me, not vice versa. But, if you’ve been reading my blog for awhile, you know that I believe in created luck: essentially, the concept that we create positive outcomes by being proactive.

Here’s what I recommend, based on my experience of building up a full client load in the first 2 months of starting CMR Strategies:

Build up network: Not, I repeat not, in the cheesy way you think of when you think of networking. Build real relationships- even if they’re online. Convey to people that you are willing to help them but please stay away from the phrase “How can I help you?” (Read: I’m saying that because I want your help).

Get on social: My friends like to remind me that social media isn’t for everyone, which I understand (I really do!). But if you’re hoping to do digital marketing and aren’t on social media- do it. Now. Be a resource- if you see someone looking for a website designer, connect them with one. Follow up with people you meet at networking events on Twitter. Follow hashtags to participate in conversations. Don’t expect an immediate pay off- but if you do it diligently, I have no doubt that it will pay off (shouldn’t Twitter pay me a commission?).

Shamelessly (and tactfully) promote: Guess how many people have emailed me to tell me about their exciting new business or lay-off? Zero. Guess how many I would have been willing to help? Anyone who emailed me! When I got laid off, I made the decision to tell everyone (seriously, everyone) and it panned out for me. Write a blog post, change your LinkedIn status, tweet about it, put it on Facebook, email your friends, family, and contacts- you never know who will see it and refer to you. Directly asking for help is underrated.

Reach out to businesses directly (and tactfully): Potential clients are everywhere- next time you notice a horrible website, a Twitter account with 23 followers and 5 tweets, or a non-existent blog, write down the name of the business and follow up with them to tell them about your services. Remember that digital marketing is a reflection of a business, so business owners may rightfully be sensitive- so be diplomatic!

Join a coworking space or digital marketing community: Working with referral/preferred partners is a very solid way to build your client base. People like me are overbooked and in need of talented professionals who can 1) take some of the workload and 2) contribute skill sets that we don’t have. Don’t view other people in the industry as competitors; view them as potential partners!

Read up- Then do! Use a feed reader like Feedly to subscribe to websites that you can learn from. Many sites like, Socia Media Today, are great for knowledge, but supplement those with sites that will give you ideas for building your business- like Brazen Careerist, where I recently read an article entitled 7 Innovative Ways Freelancers Can Find That Elusive First Client.

Consider a side hustle- If you’re employed and not ready to jump full force into a business, consider building up a side business before quitting. Calculate the minimum you can make to live comfortably, then set a goal to quit your job once you’re making that minimum just from your side business.

Start online: I prefer establishing what I consider more personal relationships with my clients, but there are tons of websites that can help build up your portfolio and earn you cash. Check out OdeskElance, People Per Hour, and FlexJobs for flexible, remote, and freelance jobs and projects.

Do you ever stop in the middle of what you’re doing and think about it in the context of the world? For example, I wrote awhile back about a hard day at work. My hard days consist of being pulled in a million directions, trying to hit overlapping deadlines, attempting to coordinate with MIA individuals, and occasionally responding to less-than-positive feedback about my clients and their products. In the grand scheme of the world and its problems- bombings, domestic abuse, poverty, to name just a few- how much does my work actually matter?

But does that mean I shouldn’t take it seriously? If I told my clients that I couldn’t send out tweets or blog posts because I didn’t think they mattered very much in the grand scheme of life, you better believe I wouldn’t have a business for long.

Perspective is undoubtedly important- putting our lives in the context of the world, taking time to be grateful for what we have, and acknowledging that maybe our struggles are just plain not so bad.

But where’s the line between having perspective while simultaneously remembering that our feelings and stresses are valid?

How do you manage your life while trying to keep perspective?

For the past few years, I’ve read blogs about all things Gen Y + career advice + freelancing + personal development + job search advice. Suffice it to say, my head is crammed with all kinds of advice on these topics! One of my favorite sites is ProfessionGal, so I’m thrilled to announce that I am now working with Megan to build the site’s reach, community, and awesomeness. And I want your help!

  • Do you have a go to place where you buy cute office supplies?
  • Do you have books or online resources that you think are must-reads for professional women?
  • Have you taken someone’s advice and regretted it?
  • Do you want to share your knowledge about any of the topics above and expand your blog’s reach?
  • Are you interested in being spotlighted as a female go-getter?

If you answered yes to any or all of the above questions, please get in touch with me! In addition to ProfessionGal, I have several other go to resources that I read in my Feedly account (still mourning the end of Google Reader…). A few of my favorites:

Ms Career Girl

Why You Should Be on a Mission to “Style” Your Life // 7 Ways to Earn More Respect and Influence as a Young Professional Woman

Levo League

Why Your Resume is Like an Online Dating Profile // How to Ask for Great Advice (And Get It!)

Daily Muse

Coffee Shop 101: How to Be a Great Café Co-worker // The Secret to Keeping Phone Calls Short and Sweet

Brazen Careerist

Practical Ways to Use Unemployment to Your Advantage // Basic SEO Every Graduate Should Know (and Why Employers Will Love You for It)

Alexis Grant

Wow-Worthy Tool for Building Your Online Brand: Rapportive’s Raplets // What It Really Takes to Grow a Side Gig

Rule Breakers Club

18 Questions To Ask Yourself To Add Meaning, Purpose, + Spark To Your Life // 7 Ways To Slow Down Without Withdrawing From Civilization

The Prepary

Should I Include My Blog on My Resume? // Tips to Make Your Job Search Efficient (And Enjoy Your Free Time)

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I recently stumbled upon Meredith Fineman’s blog and was intrigued by her Journalism-ism post. Her point: “In the world of the aggregate, the retweeted, how do we make sure that there are new standards of ethics?”…We can’t be held to outdated standards…”

Is blogger outreach part of your work? Here’s what matters when choosing bloggers to work with- written by GroupHigh, approved by me icon smile Weekend Reading

Looking at these Thai steak lettuce wraps from Iowa Girl Eats and these gluten-free banana nut quinoa muffins from Fannetastic Food is making me hungry!

Since starting work with a client in fashion, I’ve become more interested in fashion styles and trends. I love these top 10 spring trends from Corporate Fashionista.

I love reading pretty much every piece on The Daily Muse- so many fun professional development posts! Here’s 4 things you can learn from the best business blogs.

I still adore bright pink just like I did when I was in middle school, so I of course loved Nikki’s Bright Pink Please post!

If you’re a freelancer- or a human- you’ve definitely felt the pressure to say yes to everything. Will Hardison tells you why you should say no!

You know those days where you feel like the Energizer Bunny? Like nothing can slow you down? I had one of those days– and it’s continuing into the evening (while everyone I know is at North Hills Beach Music Fest, unfortunately. Ah, the life of a small business owner).

  • Massive amounts of client work (including scheduling posts from awesome bloggers like Emily of Dear Serendipity on the Fit in Clouds blog!)
  • Designed a button to sign up for my Scintillatingly Simple Strategies email list (oh you’re not on it yet? No problem!)
  • Emailed approximately 10 million freelance web designers and developers in the area
  • Created the beginnings of a directory of freelance web designers and developers in the Triangle area (oh you’re not on it yet? No problem!)
  • Ordered mini business cards from Over Prints (I was scolded by Linda at the Digital Marketing for Business conference- you win, Linda)
  • Hired Christie to design a PDF template that reflect my business brand so that I can put my massive amount of Google docs into mini e-book form
  • Signed up for ODesk to find a web developer
  • Met with Tivi Jones about her awesome digital marketing company (love her branding!)
  • Emailed one of my new contractors with the subject line “You’re kicking butt.” Body of the email: “That is all.”
  • Met with two other potential contractors and taught them about the joys of sourcing
  • Chatted with another potential contractor on the phone
  • Emailed several people about making a video intro for one of my clients
  • Created a Google doc to track WordPress themes that I love (have any that you love?)
  • Weeded through and responded to tons of HARO queries (hello, free publicity)

Want to hire CMR Strategies? Email me! Want to work with CMR Strategies as a digital marketing contractor? Email me! Want to make a video or design a website for CMR Strategies? Email me!

09. April 2013 · 1 comment · Categories: On the Menu · Tags:

on the menu for the week On the Menu for the Week {Spring is Here!}

Lentil and butternut squash soup: I’m pulling this soup out of the freezer this week, because it will be winter-y by next week! In my Crockpot, I combined carrots and celery, added cubed butternut squash pieces and multi-colored autumn lentils, seasoned it with salt, pepper, red chili pepper, and a bay leaf, and covered it all with homemade chicken stock.

Orange chicken: Now that my fear of mixing sweet and savory foods is in my rearview mirror, I’m on an experimenting kick! This simple and gluten-free orange chicken has just the right mix of sweet and savory with the orange zest, fresh orange juice, and soy sauce.

Quinoa corn black bean salad: This easy cold quinoa salad is flavorful, gluten-free, and feels like spring. It’s better if the flavors have time to marinade, so prepare it at least several hours in advance.
Spring rolls: I’m making half of them Asian-inspired and half Indian-spiced samosas. I found both of the recipes in The Gluten-Free Bible, which my friend Karrie got me for Christmas. If the spring rolls turn out well, I’ll be sure to post recipes.

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Shepherd’s Pie: I had to buy ground beef for the Indian samosas, so I wanted a simple dish that incorporated the remaining beef. The perfect comfort food!

I’m making less food this week because of several fun social obligations- tonight I am going to Durham Bulls game, so I’ll be grabbing a hot dog on a gluten-free bun and a gluten-free beer from the secret food stand. Tomorrow night, I’ll be eating gluten-free pizza at Zpizza as part of Change the Triangle’s fundraiser. Lastly, my stepdad is treating the girls to steak on Thursday for my stepsister’s birthday- thanks for being born, Holly, so that I can benefit icon wink On the Menu for the Week {Spring is Here!}

Have you heard of 30 Days of Compliments? Here’s what it says on the Facebook page:

Not to be too general but the world can sometimes be a bit negative, and lately, at times, I have caught myself buying into that negativity. I don’t want to do that. It’s not cool. It’s not me. So, even though I am not a frequent poster, I am going to use the power that I have in my words and in my ability to post on Facebook to do something positive: post one compliment a day for 30 days about a person in my life. And I figured why not invite you all to do the same, my former students, family, friends, acquaintances, etc. (it took me forever to click all 1200 tiny boxes on the invite friends list!) Will you do this with me? If so, will you share the invite? If not, no worries. You’re still the coolest! There are only two rules: the post has to be your own words and you can only compliment a person once in the 30 days. That way the good cheer is spread around a wee bit more! Who’s in?

I’d seen the 30 Days of Compliments campaign floating around Facebook and the blogosphere but hadn’t experienced it firsthand…until this morning! Karrie, one of my best friends from college, tagged me in a post that said:

30 days of compliments, Day 3: to Cristina Roman, thanks for being such a great friend! You are one of the most driven people I know and you always push me to be a better me! I love when we are together because all we do is laugh and have a great time! I am ecstatic that you said yes to my spontaneous visit in a few weeks! Can’t wait to see you!!

Just a short paragraph, but it made my day!! Though I didn’t jump on board early enough to participate in the whole 30 days, the campaign makes me want to reach out to people who have inspired me.

And speaking of reaching out to people you inspired you…I got an email from a girl I went to college with telling me that she’s been reading this little blog and that it inspired her to start her own consulting business. I am SO proud of her for making such an exciting (albeit scary) move. I’m also so appreciative that she took the time to email me to let me know that she’s been inspired- it makes me want to keep blogging regularly when I get awesome feedback like that!

Who inspires you? Are you participating in 30 Days of Compliments?

The past few months have been pretty eventful- I got laid off, started a business, endured winter, etc. Tons of great stuff happened, but it’s been challenging, especially getting in the groove with work. I feel like the beginnings of spring changed my mood dramatically! I’ve also been working hard to get systems and strategies in place so that I’m not feeling so overwhelmed.

I had a dream the other night that someone was complaining that my blog used to be fun but wasn’t anymore. So here is my attempt to bring back the fun!

  • Last Wednesday, I volunteered at the Food Bank of Central and Eastern NC with Change the Triangle. I love CTT’s big Saturday events, but it was great to have a chance to volunteer during the week with a smaller, more intimate group.
  • Last Thursday, I attended Women for Success‘ inaugural event. The organization is a “giving network comprised of passionate young professionals who support Dress for Success Triangle NC and its mission to promote the economic independence of disadvantaged women.” Delicious food + drink tickets + winning my first ever raffle + supporting a great cause!

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  • On Saturday, I went to Change the Triangle’s event with Carolina Tiger Rescue, which was a great volunteer event as always!  Great weather + awesome young adults + tigers and lions = a great way to spend a Saturday.
  • I came up with two fun April Fools pranks…one on behalf of Fit in Clouds, where I introduced our new line of stuffed animal rollable flats. The biggest surprise for me? Apparently people liked the shoes and wanted to buy them! Sorry, guys (but maybe I’ve found Fit in Clouds next big revenue-maker?).

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  • I wanted to play a joke on my boyfriend but I didn’t want anything too mean (break-ups and pregnancy scares = not that funny, shockingly). I convinced him that I spontaneously decided to buy a puppy, which definitely surprised and concerned him, considering I hadn’t talked about it at all. Sorry Chris!
  • Speaking of my boyfriend- I got to spend all Sunday with his family celebrating Easter. Tons of Easter-y food + wine + football in a dress and flats + buffalo crack dip + great weather!
  • Like I said, the spring weather is doing wonders for my mood! My windows are currently open, I have new balcony furniture, and I can take mid-day walks to Starbucks in flip flops = enough said!
  • One of my best friends from college texted me the other day to ask if she could spontaneously come to North Carolina in a few days. I think my text back looked something like: “YESSSSS! COME! WEEEE.” I miss her so much and can’t wait to plan a fun weekend.
  • I’ve recommitted to getting enough sleep, which has done wonders already, especially not that I’m all caffeine-free all the time!
  • I invited a new friend to meet for coffee- hooray for going out on a limb to meet new people icon smile Happy Tuesday + Life Updates
  • My sister and I took a Pilates class last night, which was my first one in quite awhile. I love the feeling of sore abs. Next up: tennis!
  • I’m currently making a Spring/Summer 13 playlist on Spotify. Gotta prep for beach trips and days out at the pool!
  • I’ve been back in the kitchen recently! My most recent recipe win: sweet potato gnocchi with kale, sage, and chicken. YUM!

 What are you excited about this week?

Some of you may have figured out that one of my clients is Fit in Clouds, a shoe company that makes rollable flats that can fit in your purse. Fit in Clouds have been mentioned by Oprah, Martha Stewart Weddings, Seventeen, Redbook, and more, so of course I was thrilled when they contacted me via Twitter to ask me to manage their online presence (helllooooo Twitter, Facebook, Polyvore, Instagram, Pinterest, PicMonkey, etc!).

Since Fit in Clouds pays part of my bills, it may be hard for you to take me seriously when I say these are seriously the most comfortable flats ever. I used to hate flats, but I have slowly succumbed to their power as the perfect shoes for coworking, running errands, and hanging out with friends. But these flats are just about the only ones that 1) don’t force me to go through a painful adjustment period of blisters to get used to them and 2) fit super easily into my work bag or purse.

But don’t take my word for it- you could win your own pair of rollable flats!

Fit in Clouds TGIF Giveaway TGIF Giveaway: Fit in Clouds Rollable Flats

Just click the image above for details and to enter

In the meantime, follow along with Fit in Clouds:

Twitter // Pinterest // Facebook // Polyvore

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