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Happy new year! I hoped yours started off swimmingly!

I ushered in the new year with a group of 6 in Charlotte: my boyfriend, my sister, our friend Colette, and both of the girls’ boys. We ate an incredible meal at Vivace, where my sister and I split grilled bisteca with collard greens and fingerling potatoes and pumpkin risotto with seared scallops- they were both incredible. I’m excited to visit Vivace in Raleigh now! We then attended an open bar event at VBGB Beer Hall and Garden and trekked to an after-party at a high-rise apartment building in Uptown with a pretty sick view of the city skyline. This morning, we grabbed Starbucks and McDonald’s and drove to Hollymead to visit Sue and Larry.

It was all of the boys’ first times meeting Sue and Larry, so Larry put them through the ringer with a written exam that they had to pass in order to keep dating us.

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Hilarious! After lunch at the farm, we went to a party with our other cruise friends at their beautiful house on a lake. Such a fun afternoon filled with cruise talk and laughter- as per usual icon smile Happy New Year & A Scavenger Hunt Surprise

Anddd speaking of the 6 of us and cruises: the other week, we all celebrated Chrismukkah, the now famous holiday that mixes Christmas and Hanukkah  Perfect for our motley little friend crew!

It started out as a fun little party- we put up Christmas and Hanukkah themed decorations, drank eggnog and Shelton Vineyard wine, and ate buffalo crack dip and latkes. Halfway through the evening, the boys demanded that the three girls stand near the Christmas tree for what I assumed was a holiday picture. My boyfriend kept instructing my sister to look in the branches of the tree, but since we’re loud giggly girls, it took about 5 minutes before that actually happened. My sister finally pulled out a small card and we looked in confusion toward the camera that was apparently recording us, not taking photos. We were so excited when we opened it up to reveal a scavenger hunt hint!

I won’t bore you with all of the details of the hunt (confusion, going back and forth from room to room, a lot of funny comments) but the last clue instructed as to look at the first letter of each clue for our surprise (for the record, just doing a scavenger hunt made us happy. We’re pretty easy to please!).

Being the bad instruction followers that we are, we failed to keep the cards together as we had been told. After a few minutes of running about to collect them, we began reading the first letter of each.

C (“Cristina!”). R. (“Cristina!”). U (Inappropriate comment). I (“CRUISE?!!!”) It was me that shouted “CRUISE!” but my sister and our friend told me to not get ahead of myself and keep going. S. E.

And then we stood in the kitchen in shock…obviously the boys hadn’t bought us a cruise, right?! It took about 10 minutes of convincing, but yup- the 6 of us will be going on a cruise to the Bahamas and Key West in just under a month!

Best gift I’ve ever received! Well done, boys, well done!

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I’m still reeling from the events of the past few days (sorry if you’re tired of hearing about it- I’ll be back with gluten-free recipes and non-work related life updates soon!). If you haven’t been reading, catch up here: I Got Laid Off from LivingSocial and Recap: My “I Got Laid Off from LivingSocial” Day.

Since Friday, people have reached out on Twitter, through both tweets and DMs. Several people found my email address on here and sent me emails. Other people let me know that their employers weren’t hiring but sent introduction emails to other companies. I received one offer for a big virtual hug and one offer for a Skype session- both from girls I haven’t met in person yet. One friend told me her whole team was reading my resume out loud in their office- and then reported that an auditor on her team said I need to upgrade my server to handle all the traffic to my blog.

The supportive and often hilarious words that I have received have brightened a time that could have been rough.

  • “Your drive is downright impressive.”
  • “I know this is out of the blue but you should know your blog is really impressive. Good luck in the job search!”
  • “Despite our playful bashing of one another and occasional tiffs/disagreements, I do care about your success and well being. Glad you are staying positive and focused through the experience though! Shows strong character.”
  • “I sent her a message giving her the Greta stamp of approval on you. The Greta stamp of approval is extraordinarily coveted.”
  • “You will land firmly on your feet.”
  • “Graceful post, people will recognize that in you beyond your blog.”
  • “Congrats! Hopefully it will net some nice job prospects icon wink Blown Away You rock, by the way.”
  • “Love your blog – you won’t be out of work long!”
  • “Great article Cristina! The next company that scoops you up will be a lucky one! We definitely appreciated all you did!”
  • “You’ll land on your feet I know you will. You’re a hard worker.”

A big thank you to everyone who made my first trip to San Francisco so memorable!

  • To Karrie and Lindsay, for making the same dumb jokes over and over, sympathizing with me when I hurt my foot, accommodating my gluten-free needs, making pit stops at Starbucks multiple times per day, over-planning and obsessing over our schedule, and much much more.
  • To Matt, for taking us to Napa and Muir Woods, letting us sleep in your apartment, and suffering through Indian food with us.
  • To John, for lunch, shlepping us around Napa, sharing punny jokes with us, and giving us a tour of Benecia.
  • To Jason, for our first Uber ride, our first SF apartment roof experience, and a fun Halloween night at a chic club.
  • To Emmanuel, Pat, and Hailey for being seemingly unfazed that the three of us took over your apartment for five days, made a mess of the bathroom, and giggled incessantly.
  • To Donnie, for taking time out of her busy eng recruiting schedule to show me around the SF LivingSocial office.

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(I’m a poet and I didn’t know it).

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As you’re reading this, I’m most likely boarding a plane for my first ever trip to San Francisco- also known as The Golden Gate City, The City of Freedom, Everybody’s Favorite City, Sucka Free City (my personal favorite), and Frisco. It’s been in the number one spot on my “must visit” list for quite awhile now, so I convinced two of my best friends from college to coordinate a fall getaway with me. Let me tell you, buying three decently-priced plane tickets from three separate cities based around three very different schedules was not easy, but we managed to pull it off!

In a few short hours, I’ll land in SFO, meet my friends in baggage claim, and take my first BART ride into the city. We’re staying with one of our guy friends from college, who is surprisingly calm about the impending chaos that three giddy young women kids will bring.

We have several ideas of what we want to do, but the most important thing for me to remember is that having fun with great friends is my number priority…and I’ll always get another trip back to San Fran!

A few ideas we’ve tossed around:

  • Explore the Mission
  • See Lombard St
  • Visit Alcatraz
  • Take a day trip to Napa for wine tastings
  • Wander around Berkeley’s campus
  • Enjoy dinner with one of my friend’s cousins
  • Hang out down by the port?
  • Bike across the Golden Gate Bridge
  • Meander through the Redwoods

A few things are for sure: we’ll be drinking tons of coffee and some adult beverages, telling tons of silly jokes, acting like goofy college girls again, and snapping tons of photos. Bring it on, San Fran!

P.S. Have you noticed that I have a weird obsession with city nicknames? See my posts on Nashville and New Orleans!

Our friend Colette is always telling me to post more pictures of people (as opposed to just landscapes and food) on my blog. Well, Colette, this one is for you icon smile Happy Birthday Coletti!

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“I have three beautiful ladies in my car. That’s all.”

“10-4 Wendy.”

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“Aren’t you going to give Chuckles a free piece of cheese?!”

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“Call-A-Cab is a really good name…” “…For a person?!”

“They’re like an act, the three of them.”
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“Where did you get them? You’re my hero.”

“Pump your way off.”

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“I feel like I am vodka soda.”

“It’s a real treat.”

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Here’s to many more trips (including cruises, Nashville, Hollymead, Savannah) & tons more Raleigh fun!

Last weekend, I stayed in a beautiful lake mansion with some friends. The following pictures make everything look very serene and calm. What you don’t see: the 200 Solo cups scattered around, the bar covered in handles, the ping pong balls all over the floor, the people napping on couches, the mess of a kitchen, and the dining room table covered in groceries. Oh the joys of young adulthood.

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Our dock
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Playing around with my camera’s aperture
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Lake!
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More pictures to come!

I’ve always had a tendency to involve myself with a myriad of activities outside of school and work. In high school, I played volleyball, had an internship, and volunteered regularly; in college, I started The GW Social Enterprise Forum, interned with several organizations, was a mentor for Compass Fellows, and was very involved with a pre-semester volunteer program for freshmen called Community Building Community.

Currently, I am the head of the membership committee for Change the Triangle; I run the Triangle area bloggers group; I am organizing an event for the NC alumni chapter of GW; and I will hopefully be sitting on a regional board for Compass.
Call them extracurriculars or hobbies, but I always find myself busy! I got to thinking recently about what motivates us to get and stay involved in non-required activities.
  • To be generous: One might argue that the #1 thing that gets a young professional out of bed at 6:45am on a Saturday morning for a Change the Triangle volunteer event is selflessness. Seeing the impact we have on the community, through cleaning Jordan Lake or working with kids at Haven House, is certainly a huge motivation for me. Knowing I can drink a cup of coffee doesn’t hurt either icon wink What Motivates Us to Get Involved? Likewise, empowering others is my top motivation for being involved with Compass Fellows- I see the benefits of the fellowship and want to play a role in ensuring that the most students possible can reap those benefits.
  • To make friends: The majority of my friends have come from Change the Triangle, so I can’t discount that as a benefit. Like with Community Building Community, having access to a group of like-minded young adults has been incredible. Meeting like-minded girls was definitely my #1 motivation for starting the blog group. 
  • To network: Being involved in “extracurriculars” is a great jumping off point for conversations and adds a unique dimension to young professionals. Compass and the GW Alumni Association will undoubtedly provide me with extensive networking opportunities with individuals whom I already have something in common with (a love of social enterprise and a fondness for GW, respectively). 
  • To pad our resumes: When we’re meeting all said people at networking events {see above}, we can pass out our super-padded resumes, which include our numerous professional affiliations icon smile What Motivates Us to Get Involved?  
  • To give us an escape from work: Working on a Habitat house is a far cry from tweeting or sourcing candidates, which is probably why I enjoy it so much {not to say I don’t love tweeting or sourcing!}. Stepping outside my normal day-to-day is empowering and a welcome change of pace.  
  • Peer pressure: Whether you think of it as positive peer pressure or not, our generation certainly instills in us that being involved and yes, staying busy, are critical for our happiness and success. 
  • Explore outside interests: When I was a Human Services major in college, being part of Compass Partners and founding The GW Social Enterprise Forum allowed me to explore my budding interest in social enterprise. Extracurriculars and hobbies are a safe, low-commitment way to explore our other interests, perhaps even leading to a change in major or career path.
What are you involved with outside of school and/or work? What motivates you? 

On Thursday evening, I jumped in Pearl {my car}, blasted 90s music, and drove to DC, stopping for dinner and snacks along the way.

I spent part of Friday working from the Starbucks in Georgetown, grabbed a make-your-own bibimbap for lunch at Rice Bar on 19th St, then walked to my office, which is just past the White House. From 37th St to 14th St- not too shabby icon smile 90s Music, Stuff White People Like, & Plans for the Day

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I spent the whole afternoon in back-to-back meetings with coworkers. Working virtually is great, but it’s always nice to see everyone and have a chance to connect face-to-face. And I forgot how nice it is to have unlimited snacks and a coffee machine that makes cappuccinos!

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At 6:30, I left the office and picked up my friend at her office nearby. It turned out that our third friend was nearby, so the three of us took the bus together, picked up some food and wine from Safeway {we jokingly told the woman helping us pick out wine to come drink with us}, and made a delicious meal of chicken, chicken sausage, salad, roasted brussel sprouts, and cherries. We spent the night chatting, laughing, and playing the Stuff White People Like game {authentic ethnic dining experiences, anyone?}.

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This morning I grabbed an iced coffee and then had a chance to speak to a group of high schoolers about social media. They were a fun, very engaged group!

Ideas for today’s agenda:

  • Blogging from Saxby’s in Georgetown
  • Tennis
  • Wandering through GW’s campus
  • Ethiopian food on U St
  • Smithsonian museums {Air and Space and/or the Museum of American History)
  • Kayaking to Roosevelt Island

Random thought: Though I feel bittersweet passing my old stomping grounds, I don’t wish I lived in DC. But I do love visiting for a few days and feeling like I know my way around the city. Not quite a resident, but not quite a tourist!

This weekend, I headed back to Hollymead {or “the farm” as it’s now known to all our friends} for another weekend in paradise.

Hollymead: a stunningly beautiful farm in western North Carolina that belongs to a married couple that we met on our cruise to the Bahamas back in February. They have graciously offered to host us whenever our little city hearts desire icon smile A Weekend in Paradise  

Highlights

Non-stop laughing + listening to 90s music on the car ride. Writing down all the funny quotes on an Evernote. Arriving back at Hollymead and feeling at home. Meeting two new people at dinner. Eating delicious steaks with baked potatoes and salad. Cracking jokes until our stomaches hurt. Opening my birthday present {a bottle of Razzmatazz Red wine, named after Razz, the dog} and cutting into my pretty tropical cake:

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Seeing two baby colts down at the stable. Staying up late to chat. Waking up early-ish, eating gluten-free zucchini carrot bread, and drinking coffee. Taking a ride in the Kabota {lovingly nicknamed the Katuba}. Driving an hour to Shelton Vineyards and singing Hotel California in the car. Joking with our waitress while enjoying lunch at the on-site grill. Sara Rose and I split the jalapeno corn shrimp salad and the crab cakes:

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Touring the private area, where people can adopt a barrel and have a message written on it. There were several with proposals written on them, but I liked this one best:

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Doing a wine tasting and befriending Judy, who kept the wine flowing:

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Joking around with one of the other workers. Getting Blizzards at Dairy Queen. Heading back to the farm to whip up caprese skewers, steak rolls, and horseradish and soy ginger dipping sauces:

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Seeing a rainbow on our way to the party at the house of other cruise friends:

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Eating a delicious assortment of potluck food, including addictive buffalo crack dip:

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Taking tequila shots. Pretending to have horrible hangovers in the morning {we didn’t!}. Learning how to use the John Deere with a mower attachment. Mowing a big pasture while listening to Miley Cyrus {this was my reward for coming back to the farm haha!}. Enjoying lunch on the back porch and looking over the entire valley as it rained.

See a common thread here? Literally everywhere the group went, we harassed befriended owners, workers, waitresses, and innocent bystanders. As someone said, “It’s like a traveling comedy act.” I may be giving us too much credit, but when my stomach hurts non-stop from laughing, I would have to agree icon smile A Weekend in Paradise Hey, at least we make ourselves laugh, right?!

 My Birthday Weekend!

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In other news, it’s my birthday weekend! Last year’s birthday was filled with daisies, a new car, a visit from my mom, and a great celebration with local and visiting friends.

This year I’m having a pretty low-key celebration with friends. The weekend includes a dip party, a day by the pool, a girls night out, gluten-free treats, and birthday freebies.

Stay tuned for all the details icon smile My Birthday Weekend!

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+Cristina Roman