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Screen Shot 2013 01 25 at 9.01.38 AM A Valentines Soiree: Saturday, February 16 in Raleigh

Join Change the Triangle and Live Work Play for a Valentine’s cocktail party complete with hors d’oeuvres, a DJ, a photo booth with a step-and-repeat, great raffle prizes, and a cash bar. This event is co-sponsored by The Glenwood Agency, Yelp, Eschelon Hospitality, and Zinda.

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Bonus: Fit in Clouds will be donating a pair of rollable flats to the raffle, like these:red sequin flats cropped A Valentines Soiree: Saturday, February 16 in Raleigh

All tickets sales benefit Change the Triangle, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization provides young professionals with the opportunity to engage in the community through combined volunteer service projects and social events.

new years resolutions Weekend Reading (New Years Edition)

I like the idea of having one word that you want to live by for the year, a la Clare: Accomplish 2013 & Monthly Goals. Now what should my word be?

I love Elle’s suggestions of choosing mini-resolutions, instead of daunting ones you may never accomplish: Healthier You Mini-Resolution Ideas.

The EveryGirl is another advocate of the dumping traditional resolutions that are bound to fail: Living Well: Ditching Traditional New Year’s Resolutions

But speaking of resolutions, I am a fan of the philosophy of working smarter, not harder. Hence, my interest in My Career Resolution for 2013:  Work Smarter, Not Harder.

From one of my favorites, Yes and Yes: 13 Fresh Starts For The New Year.

And lastly, Angeline shows why focusing on discipline is good if you’re doing it for your own good: Project Discipline.

And a bonus read unrelated to the new year: What I Love About Raleigh, Better not Bigger. Thank you for the shout-out, Mr. Hardison. Go Raleigh icon smile Weekend Reading (New Years Edition)

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Happy new year! I hoped yours started off swimmingly!

I ushered in the new year with a group of 6 in Charlotte: my boyfriend, my sister, our friend Colette, and both of the girls’ boys. We ate an incredible meal at Vivace, where my sister and I split grilled bisteca with collard greens and fingerling potatoes and pumpkin risotto with seared scallops- they were both incredible. I’m excited to visit Vivace in Raleigh now! We then attended an open bar event at VBGB Beer Hall and Garden and trekked to an after-party at a high-rise apartment building in Uptown with a pretty sick view of the city skyline. This morning, we grabbed Starbucks and McDonald’s and drove to Hollymead to visit Sue and Larry.

It was all of the boys’ first times meeting Sue and Larry, so Larry put them through the ringer with a written exam that they had to pass in order to keep dating us.

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Hilarious! After lunch at the farm, we went to a party with our other cruise friends at their beautiful house on a lake. Such a fun afternoon filled with cruise talk and laughter- as per usual icon smile Happy New Year & A Scavenger Hunt Surprise

Anddd speaking of the 6 of us and cruises: the other week, we all celebrated Chrismukkah, the now famous holiday that mixes Christmas and Hanukkah  Perfect for our motley little friend crew!

It started out as a fun little party- we put up Christmas and Hanukkah themed decorations, drank eggnog and Shelton Vineyard wine, and ate buffalo crack dip and latkes. Halfway through the evening, the boys demanded that the three girls stand near the Christmas tree for what I assumed was a holiday picture. My boyfriend kept instructing my sister to look in the branches of the tree, but since we’re loud giggly girls, it took about 5 minutes before that actually happened. My sister finally pulled out a small card and we looked in confusion toward the camera that was apparently recording us, not taking photos. We were so excited when we opened it up to reveal a scavenger hunt hint!

I won’t bore you with all of the details of the hunt (confusion, going back and forth from room to room, a lot of funny comments) but the last clue instructed as to look at the first letter of each clue for our surprise (for the record, just doing a scavenger hunt made us happy. We’re pretty easy to please!).

Being the bad instruction followers that we are, we failed to keep the cards together as we had been told. After a few minutes of running about to collect them, we began reading the first letter of each.

C (“Cristina!”). R. (“Cristina!”). U (Inappropriate comment). I (“CRUISE?!!!”) It was me that shouted “CRUISE!” but my sister and our friend told me to not get ahead of myself and keep going. S. E.

And then we stood in the kitchen in shock…obviously the boys hadn’t bought us a cruise, right?! It took about 10 minutes of convincing, but yup- the 6 of us will be going on a cruise to the Bahamas and Key West in just under a month!

Best gift I’ve ever received! Well done, boys, well done!

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Remember when I put out a call for guest bloggers? I got several responses, including from Jennifer Durbin of the Clueless Chick. I’ve been following her on Pinterest for awhile now, so I was excited to get her proposal for a post on stress-free party planning for the holidays. Take it away, Jennifer!

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For many of us the holidays are anything but stress-free with all of the shopping, wrapping, cooking and endless events, so it can be overwhelming to think about adding party planning to your to do list.  Enter the Clueless Chick.  With Party Planning Tips for The Clueless Chick, your party planning will be, dare I say it), FUN!

So stop avoiding hosting a holiday party and start creating your guest list.  From a large holiday open house, to an intimate dinner party for six, there are a few party planning tips that are guaranteed to leave you looking for any excuse to have another party:

Have fun with it

  • Forget the stress of trying to throw the perfect Martha Stewart Holiday Party and focus on throwing a party that is all “you”! Pick a party theme that is easiest for you – if cooking is your least favorite pastime, have a cocktail party late in the evening when you will only need to serve light appetizers (which you can even buy at your local wholesale club).

Setup like a pro

  • Save yourself a lot of day-of stress by setting up as much as possible the day, or week, before the party.  You can also choose a menu that freezes well so that you can do a majority of your cooking the weekend before.  Don’t forget to setup with cleanup in mind.  Emptying your dishwasher before the party is an easy way to ensure that you have a place to stash dirty dishes throughout the party.

Outsource

  • Hire a party planner, if it fits into your budget, and let the expert stress for you.  Or, a much more budget friendly option is to team up with a friend and co-host the party.  Find a friend with a “party ready” house and offer to bring the food – a perfect division of labor.  Don’t forget to enlist the help of your friendly local teenager* for anything from running errands to post-party clean up.
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Now that you’ve got the secret tips for stress-free party planning, it’s time to start planning!  You have a lot of work ahead of you, but every bit of it is worth it when you see the looks on your guests’ faces.  The most important thing to remember is to have fun!  Just remember to relax and enjoy every minute of the fabulous party you are about to throw.

Until next time,
Jennifer

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Jennifer Durbin is a Type A/OCD overachiever who is obsessed with over-researching everything.  Jennifer has turned her expertise in cutting through the noise and making research palatable into the Tips for The Clueless Chick™ series, life’s contemporary CliffsNotes™ for the modern woman. Jennifer received her MBA from Kenan-Flagler Business School, has a successful career in Information Technology and runs a popular Event Design business in Raleigh, NC where she lives with her husband and two small children.

*Cristina’s note:

I recently started doing some work with Sweeps, a local business that allows you an easy way to hire a college student for just about any task. Consider using a Sweeper for your holiday party- just use Sweep’s easy Post a Job form!

Happy 4th of July!

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Hope your day is filled with fun, friends, fireworks, grilling, and maybe a few adult beverages icon smile Happy 4th of July! Here are a few ideas of things to do if you haven’t decided yet:

P.S. Fourth of July means ten days until my birthday!

Nothing says Cinco de Mayo more than cilantro + jalapenos + lime…besides Coronas and margaritas, obviously.

In light of the fact that Cinco de Mayo is my all-time favorite holiday, I whipped up this gluten-free pasta casserole the other day.

Prepare noodles {gluten-free or not} according to the instructions. Caramelize half an onion. In a casserole pan, layer noodles, chopped cilantro, caramelized onions, sliced cherry tomatoes, chopped jalapenos, a bit of lime juice, and sliced Al Fresco jalapeno chicken sausages. Cover with mozzarella cheese and bake for 20-30 minutes at 350. 

Ole!

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P.S. Check out my Hosting Ideas board on Pinterest. It’s basically just a compilation of Cinco de Mayo ideas!

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This weekend was crazy! There were several mishaps, but overall, I had a great time because my friend was in town! We indulged in pork nachos and PBR at Raleigh Times, brunched with his Chapel Hill friend {and my new friend!} at Irregardless, imbibed during the St. Patrick’s Day parade and consequent celebration in Moore Square, met some of my neighbors, and watched Friends and Scary Movie 4 {such a ridiculous movie!}.

After he left, I played a long round of tennis with my partner {such an amazing feeling to get back out after hibernating during the winter months}. Our tradition is to play an intense hour or so and then reward ourselves with Gatorade {my new favorite is the Tropical Mango…which contains 0% juice haha}.

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I then whipped up two interesting spins on pasta casserole {both gluten-free}: tuna zucchini dill {based on this recipe} and sweet potato mac & cheese with caramelized onions and roasted orange peppers.

Afterward I spontaneously invited a new friend to the $2 movie theatre {long gone are the days of the $1.50 movie}. We saw Man on a Ledge, which was a fun watch. Every time they showed the edge of the ledge, I had a mini panic attack though!

This week is off to a good start- I woke up early, did a short run, and ended up {on purpose} at Starbucks for a grande iced coffee. Later, within 10 minutes of arriving in the office, my friend gchatted me about a relay race, which got me inspired icon smile off to a good start

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How do you start your week off right?

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Creative Marketing

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Trader Joe's advertising in the freezer section

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Zappos ad bin security at the airport. Genius!

Candles
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Gluten-Free Cookbooks

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Another Christmahanakwanza present from my sister- Gluten-Free on a Shoestring. How perfect for me!

Footie Pajamas

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I'm the proud/ashamed owner of the pink ones on the right. The girls and I had a footie night the other day- just hanging out and sipping wine in our onesies!

Seasonal Teas

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Candy Cane Lane and Nutcracker Sweet are my absolute favorite teas. I have to hunt them down early every holiday season so they're not all gone! They make great gifts too icon smile lovin right now

Party Themes

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The Raleigh Forum is hosting a party on January 26 but I can't tell you the theme quite yet. Want to be sure you score an invite? Contact me!

Photo credits: here, here, here, here, and here

I logged into Pinterest recently and was inspired by all the pictures posted by my Pinterest friends- so much so that I decided to make a “holiday pinspiration board” to keep track of all the things I want to do/make/appreciate over the holidays!

{To see all the photos I pinned, click on the image below}

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P.S. Remember when I blogged about “Ask and You Shall Receive“? In my recent review of Garden Lites gluten-free souffles, I half-jokingly asked the company if they wanted to give me some free products to sample. Well, I did one better- I got a response on Twitter offering e-coupons for YOU, my readers! I’ll do a little giveaway in mid-January icon smile holiday pinspiration board I heard great things about the zucchini marinara, so I’m excited about trying that out.

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This Day Last Year: My observation about being a perfectionist and always striving to be better instead of just allowing yourself to appreciate your many accomplishments. I recently sent this post to my sister to remind her to just think about all she’s done instead of stressing herself out to do more!

Happy {belated} Memorial Day! I grilled in the early afternoon and then went a-wandering to the Georgetown Waterfront for some sun, water (as in the Potomac River kind), good company…and maybeee a few Coronas. Hope yours was equally as relaxing icon smile girls can grill 2.0: corn on the cob edition

For yesterday’s cook out, I decided to test all the corn theories that I’ve been reading: Is leaving the husk on better? What is the best way to flavor corn? Does soaking the corn in water make any difference?

By the way, as I write this, I’m listening to Luke Bryan’s “Rain is a Good Thing” because it aligns with the blog topic icon smile girls can grill 2.0: corn on the cob edition

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Verdicts

  • Plumping corn: The theory is that soaking your corn- after it has been husked- in cold water will make it more plump and retain more moisture so that it steams better. I did this with 3 of the 4 cobs, and I couldn’t tell much of a difference.
  • Husk on or off: Grill enthusiasts wax lyrical about the benefits of grilling corn with the husk on or off. According to my research *pushes glasses up on nose* keeping the husk on helps steam the kernels. It tasted slightly more smoky to me, so I preferred husk off, but my friend liked it with the husk on the best.
  • Flavoring: now to my favorite topic- seasoning the corn! In my culinary rampage,  I decided to make not 1, not 2, but 3 different kinds of butter- basil butter, jalapeno lime butter, and cumin butter. Lo and behold, we actually liked the butters in that order, which was the order we tried them in. As my friend declared, “They just keep getting better!” {I almost just typed butter haha}. The basil butter was nothing exciting, but could be improved by adding fully ground fresh leaves to diffuse the flavor more. Despite my aversion to mixing fruit with savory foods, I loved this one! It might help to grind the jalapeno and let it sit in the butter for longer, so that the butter soaks up more spiciness. The cumin butter was so incredibly simple but amazing- just ground cumin mixed with softened butter and spread over the grilled corn.
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Intrigued by the differences between “grilling” and “barbecuing”? Check out this explanation.

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+Cristina Roman